Guess what today is? Or would have been? My wedding anniversary, were I still married. Guess what the great news about that is? I FORGOT. Until someone reminded me earlier... I forgot. When I look back to where I was on this day last year, I am eternally grateful that I have come so far in a year. I know with absolute certainty that where I am today is where I'm supposed to be and where I should have been all along. So - today, on what would have been my ninth wedding anniversary, I want to say to all my family and friends - THANK YOU. Thank you for everything you have done for me always and especially over the last year. Thank you for your love and support. Thanks for being there always. I love you all. You are all a huge part of the reason that today I am HAPPIER than I've ever been.
Guess what else? I got my Starbucks Gold card today. V. happy.
It's a good day. Life is good.
06 November 2008
01 November 2008
Video
Cobby learned this song in school:
There were five little monkeys sitting in a tree...
teasing the alligator, "You can't catch me!"
Along came the alligator, quiet as can be,
and he SNAPPED that monkey right out of that tree!
Here he is singing it, replacing Matt for the monkeys...
There were five little monkeys sitting in a tree...
teasing the alligator, "You can't catch me!"
Along came the alligator, quiet as can be,
and he SNAPPED that monkey right out of that tree!
Here he is singing it, replacing Matt for the monkeys...
Halloween
A few pics of the big day.... The kids got more candy that I can believe. We trick or treated for a full two hours.
So at Cobby's Halloween Party yesterday, the teachers were trying to get the kids energy out... They put on some music for the kids to dance. Cobby (in the red dragon costume) just stands there for about ten seconds before finally getting his groove on. I thought it was really funny. Check out the video:
More pics on our photo page: http://lizzyh.shutterfly.com/
27 October 2008
Why did the chicken cross the road?
This is an email I got, but I thought it was so funny it was worth a post....
Why did the chicken cross the road?
BARACK OBAMA: The chicken crossed the road because it was time for change! The chicken wanted change!
JOHN MC CAIN: My friends; that chicken crossed the road because he recognized the need to engage in cooperation and dialogue with all the chickens on the other side of the road.
HILLARY CLINTON: When I was First Lady, I personally helped that little chicken to cross the road. This experience makes me uniquely qualified to ensure right from day one that every chicken in this country gets the chance it deserves to cross the road. But then, this really isn't about me.
GEORGE W. BUSH: We don't really care why the chicken crossed the road. We just want to know if the chicken is on our side of the road, or not. The chicken is either against us, or for us. There is no middle ground here.
DICK CHENEY: Where's my gun?
COLIN POWELL: Now to the left of the screen, you can clearly see the satellite image of the chicken crossing the road.
AL GORE: I invented the chicken.
AL SHARPTON: Why are all the chickens white? We need some black chickens.
DR. PHIL: The problem we have here is that this chicken won't realize that he must first deal with the problem on this side of the road before it goes after the problem on the other side of the road. What we need to do is help him realize how stupid he's acting by not taking on his current problems before adding new problems.
OPRAH: Well, I understand that the chicken is having problems, which is why he wants to cross this road so bad. So instead of having the chicken learn from his mistakes and take falls, which is a part of life, I'm going to give this chicken a car so that he can just drive across the road and not live his life like the rest of the chickens.
ANDERSON COOPER, CNN: We have reason to believe there is a chicken, but we have not yet been allowed to have access to the other side of the road.
NANCY GRACE: That chicken crossed the road because he's guilty! You can see it in his eyes and the way he walks.
PAT BUCHANAN: To steal the job of a decent, hardworking American.
MARTHA STEWART: No one called me to warn me which way that chicken was going. I had a standing order at the Farmer's Market to sell my eggs when the price dropped to a certain level. No little bird gave me any insider information.
ERNEST HEMINGWAY: To die in the rain, alone.
GRANDPA: In my day we didn't ask why the chicken crossed the road. Somebody told us the chicken crossed the road, and that was good enough.
BARBARA WALTERS: Isn't that interesting? In a few moments, we will be listening to the chicken tell, for the first time, the heart warming story of how it experienced a serious case of molting, and went on to accomplish its lifelong dream of crossing the road.
ARISTOTLE: It is the nature of chickens to cross the road.
JOHN LENNON: Imagine all the chickens in the world crossing roads together, in peace.
BILL GATES: I have just released eChicken2008, which will not only cross roads, but will lay eggs, file your important documents, and balance your checkbook. Internet Explorer is an integral part of eChicken2008. This new platform is much more stable and will never reboot.
ALBERT EINSTEIN: Did the chicken really cross the road, or did the road move beneath the chicken?
COLONEL SANDERS: Did I miss one?
Why did the chicken cross the road?
BARACK OBAMA: The chicken crossed the road because it was time for change! The chicken wanted change!
JOHN MC CAIN: My friends; that chicken crossed the road because he recognized the need to engage in cooperation and dialogue with all the chickens on the other side of the road.
HILLARY CLINTON: When I was First Lady, I personally helped that little chicken to cross the road. This experience makes me uniquely qualified to ensure right from day one that every chicken in this country gets the chance it deserves to cross the road. But then, this really isn't about me.
GEORGE W. BUSH: We don't really care why the chicken crossed the road. We just want to know if the chicken is on our side of the road, or not. The chicken is either against us, or for us. There is no middle ground here.
DICK CHENEY: Where's my gun?
COLIN POWELL: Now to the left of the screen, you can clearly see the satellite image of the chicken crossing the road.
AL GORE: I invented the chicken.
AL SHARPTON: Why are all the chickens white? We need some black chickens.
DR. PHIL: The problem we have here is that this chicken won't realize that he must first deal with the problem on this side of the road before it goes after the problem on the other side of the road. What we need to do is help him realize how stupid he's acting by not taking on his current problems before adding new problems.
OPRAH: Well, I understand that the chicken is having problems, which is why he wants to cross this road so bad. So instead of having the chicken learn from his mistakes and take falls, which is a part of life, I'm going to give this chicken a car so that he can just drive across the road and not live his life like the rest of the chickens.
ANDERSON COOPER, CNN: We have reason to believe there is a chicken, but we have not yet been allowed to have access to the other side of the road.
NANCY GRACE: That chicken crossed the road because he's guilty! You can see it in his eyes and the way he walks.
PAT BUCHANAN: To steal the job of a decent, hardworking American.
MARTHA STEWART: No one called me to warn me which way that chicken was going. I had a standing order at the Farmer's Market to sell my eggs when the price dropped to a certain level. No little bird gave me any insider information.
ERNEST HEMINGWAY: To die in the rain, alone.
GRANDPA: In my day we didn't ask why the chicken crossed the road. Somebody told us the chicken crossed the road, and that was good enough.
BARBARA WALTERS: Isn't that interesting? In a few moments, we will be listening to the chicken tell, for the first time, the heart warming story of how it experienced a serious case of molting, and went on to accomplish its lifelong dream of crossing the road.
ARISTOTLE: It is the nature of chickens to cross the road.
JOHN LENNON: Imagine all the chickens in the world crossing roads together, in peace.
BILL GATES: I have just released eChicken2008, which will not only cross roads, but will lay eggs, file your important documents, and balance your checkbook. Internet Explorer is an integral part of eChicken2008. This new platform is much more stable and will never reboot.
ALBERT EINSTEIN: Did the chicken really cross the road, or did the road move beneath the chicken?
COLONEL SANDERS: Did I miss one?
20 October 2008
I'm so happy I might cry...
So last week I was reading my Washington Post magazine, and it was the issue with the best cheap eats in the city. You know me, I love good food, and even better if I do not have to cook it!
Rewind a little bit to my years in England... Back then my favorite "fast food" place was a South African chicken joint called Nandos. I missed it so much when I moved back that I even had friends buy my their sauce and send it to me so I could try to re-create it at home... (A failed attempt, I should note...) Their main ingredient is some kind of South African spice or chili pepper (not sure exactly which) called Peri-Peri. So for the last six and half years I have had to live without delicious Nandos... It has severely traumatized me.
But oh happy day, cause GUESS WHAT? According to my Post magazine, one just opened in DC! The first in the US apparently, and it's in Penn Quarter / Chinatown, which is in NW and close-ish to my work! I can cruise down there at lunch on a good day and be back in just over an hour. You can bet I'll be making the trek just as soon as I can find the time. Check back later this week for my own personal reviews... I can't wait. I literally was so happy I almost cried tears of joy.
http://www.nandosperiperi.com/index.cfm
Rewind a little bit to my years in England... Back then my favorite "fast food" place was a South African chicken joint called Nandos. I missed it so much when I moved back that I even had friends buy my their sauce and send it to me so I could try to re-create it at home... (A failed attempt, I should note...) Their main ingredient is some kind of South African spice or chili pepper (not sure exactly which) called Peri-Peri. So for the last six and half years I have had to live without delicious Nandos... It has severely traumatized me.
But oh happy day, cause GUESS WHAT? According to my Post magazine, one just opened in DC! The first in the US apparently, and it's in Penn Quarter / Chinatown, which is in NW and close-ish to my work! I can cruise down there at lunch on a good day and be back in just over an hour. You can bet I'll be making the trek just as soon as I can find the time. Check back later this week for my own personal reviews... I can't wait. I literally was so happy I almost cried tears of joy.
http://www.nandosperiperi.com/index.cfm
12 October 2008
Pumpkin Patch
Here are a few photos from our trip to the pumpkin patch yesterday... For more, check out our photo page...
11 October 2008
Ewww, ewww, ewww.
So I just found the grossest nastiest old smelliest bananas ever. They were black. And juicy. And DISGUSTING. Ewwww. Nasty, nasty, nasty.
09 October 2008
I have ESP, for real.
Yeah baby! So we play this game in my department at work - guess who the next Survivor to get voted off will be and you can leave 1/2 hour early on Friday. I seem to have a knack for picking these people correctly, and rockstar that I am, got it right again tonight... (I am modest too...) Why can't I predict the lottery the same way? Guess I will just have to try to win the million dollars at the Monopoly game at Mickey D's. Lots of coffee and diet coke being purchased in my future...
Today was crazy busy at work, and a busy night with the kiddos. I am tired, tired, tired. So my post tonight will be short, and possibly slightly incoherent, as I keep having to stop typing to have these huge yawns. (Did that make you just yawn - why are they contagious, can someone explain it to me?) I am really looking forward to washing my face with the new face soap I bought today and climbing into my beddy. It's the little things that make me happy. :) I also got new face lotion, as I was out of both the soap and moisturizer. Yippee! Clean skin, here I come.
That's it from here for now - I keep feeling the need to look at the inside of my eyelids, so I guess I better head to bed where I can examine them in peace. Sweet dreams all.
Today was crazy busy at work, and a busy night with the kiddos. I am tired, tired, tired. So my post tonight will be short, and possibly slightly incoherent, as I keep having to stop typing to have these huge yawns. (Did that make you just yawn - why are they contagious, can someone explain it to me?) I am really looking forward to washing my face with the new face soap I bought today and climbing into my beddy. It's the little things that make me happy. :) I also got new face lotion, as I was out of both the soap and moisturizer. Yippee! Clean skin, here I come.
That's it from here for now - I keep feeling the need to look at the inside of my eyelids, so I guess I better head to bed where I can examine them in peace. Sweet dreams all.
08 October 2008
Musings....
So, lots of you have been asking for updates on how I'm adjusting to the single mom thing and how the kiddos are doing.... Long story short, it's fine! Not that different than before - my evenings are very similar to how they were in Ohio. The biggest difference is that there's no opportunity for a break if you get sick, tired, or whatever. But mostly - day to day - everything is smooth sailing. Of course it helps that I have two extremely good kids - they listen well, help around the house and are generally great. They have their moments of course, and love to pick on each other... But they also take care of each other and are very close. It's great to see.
So for all of you who've asked - here's a run down of our Monday to Friday days... This is our "ideal" morning - many days I hit snooze a few extra times and the whole production gets pushed back a few minutes.
6:00 am - Alarm goes off. I hit snooze.
6:09 am - Alarm goes off. Again. I hit snooze. Again.
6:15 am - Drag myself out of bed and turn on shower
6:17 am - Turn on hall light and wake up both kids
6:20 am - I shower while they both get dressed
6:35 am - Dry my hair, finish dressing kids, and help them with their teeth (yes, all at once)
6:40 am - Straighten hair, makeup, brush Cobby hair, put Maddie's hair up in her choice of "fashion" for the day
6:55 am - Down the stairs to the kitchen, get purse, lunches, etc.
6:57 am - Backpacks on and downstairs to put on shoes / jackets
7:00 am - In car and driving to daycare
7:15 am - Arrive at daycare
7:25 am - Leave daycare
7:40 am - Hopefully have time to stop for coffee somewhere...
7:50 am - Arrive at work
12:00 pm - I run as many errands as possible at lunch - grocery, post office, bank, etc.
5:00 pm - Leave work to pick up kids
5:20 pm - Get to daycare and collect my cargo... :)
5:30 pm - Leave daycare for home
5:45 pm - Arrive home, immediately sit down to do homework (math, spelling and reading every night plus occasional special projects)
6:00 pm - I cook dinner, Maddie reads to herself, Cobby plays
6:15 pm - Eat dinner together
6:40 pm - Clean up kitchen, throw in some laundry, or hoover, etc.
6:45 pm - Play games (Candyland or Chutes and Ladders usually), read to kids, play with toys, etc.
7:30 pm - Kids showers / brush teeth
7:45 to 8:00 pm - Read some more, kids in bed
So that's it! That's our basic Mon - Fri routine. It works for us, and I still get quality time to eat with them, play with them, and read to them every day. We hardly ever turn on our television during the week, and I think that's a good thing. On Friday nights they stay up "late" (about 9-ish) and we'll sometimes watch a movie together.
I am tired of course, and like I mentioned above, the main difference is the lack of opportunity for a break if you need one. But I wouldn't change a thing. Soon we'll be working in a few extra activities - Maddie wants to do cheerleading again so I need to get that organized for her, and she will start CCD (religious ed) in a couple weeks.
Everything else with me is good - work is good, Matt is great. For my Cincy pals who haven't already heard - I'm not coming back for Turkey Day.... Heading to MI with Matt and Allie to meet his fam (I'm very excited about this!). The kids will be there with their dad though.
Other than that, not much news! Life is good.
So for all of you who've asked - here's a run down of our Monday to Friday days... This is our "ideal" morning - many days I hit snooze a few extra times and the whole production gets pushed back a few minutes.
6:00 am - Alarm goes off. I hit snooze.
6:09 am - Alarm goes off. Again. I hit snooze. Again.
6:15 am - Drag myself out of bed and turn on shower
6:17 am - Turn on hall light and wake up both kids
6:20 am - I shower while they both get dressed
6:35 am - Dry my hair, finish dressing kids, and help them with their teeth (yes, all at once)
6:40 am - Straighten hair, makeup, brush Cobby hair, put Maddie's hair up in her choice of "fashion" for the day
6:55 am - Down the stairs to the kitchen, get purse, lunches, etc.
6:57 am - Backpacks on and downstairs to put on shoes / jackets
7:00 am - In car and driving to daycare
7:15 am - Arrive at daycare
7:25 am - Leave daycare
7:40 am - Hopefully have time to stop for coffee somewhere...
7:50 am - Arrive at work
12:00 pm - I run as many errands as possible at lunch - grocery, post office, bank, etc.
5:00 pm - Leave work to pick up kids
5:20 pm - Get to daycare and collect my cargo... :)
5:30 pm - Leave daycare for home
5:45 pm - Arrive home, immediately sit down to do homework (math, spelling and reading every night plus occasional special projects)
6:00 pm - I cook dinner, Maddie reads to herself, Cobby plays
6:15 pm - Eat dinner together
6:40 pm - Clean up kitchen, throw in some laundry, or hoover, etc.
6:45 pm - Play games (Candyland or Chutes and Ladders usually), read to kids, play with toys, etc.
7:30 pm - Kids showers / brush teeth
7:45 to 8:00 pm - Read some more, kids in bed
So that's it! That's our basic Mon - Fri routine. It works for us, and I still get quality time to eat with them, play with them, and read to them every day. We hardly ever turn on our television during the week, and I think that's a good thing. On Friday nights they stay up "late" (about 9-ish) and we'll sometimes watch a movie together.
I am tired of course, and like I mentioned above, the main difference is the lack of opportunity for a break if you need one. But I wouldn't change a thing. Soon we'll be working in a few extra activities - Maddie wants to do cheerleading again so I need to get that organized for her, and she will start CCD (religious ed) in a couple weeks.
Everything else with me is good - work is good, Matt is great. For my Cincy pals who haven't already heard - I'm not coming back for Turkey Day.... Heading to MI with Matt and Allie to meet his fam (I'm very excited about this!). The kids will be there with their dad though.
Other than that, not much news! Life is good.
07 October 2008
06 October 2008
We be bloggin...
Hey, welcome! Glad to see you made it here. I have decided to move our blog, as the old location wouldn't let me have pretty backgrounds, and posting there was a pain in my behind. So this is the new home of our blog! If I can figure out how to easily bring my old posts with me, I will do so. But that's a project for another time. I will be updating shortly, this is just a quick post to let you know you are indeed in the right place!
11 September 2008
Shallow Me....
Today I got yelled at for not updating my blog... Thanks Jami! But you all know what a procrastinator I am. Some things never change. So I figured I'd come on and share my news... No deep thoughts today, I'm too tired for them. So here goes - updates on our status:
Me = happy, tired, adjusting to the single mom thing, crazy in love.
Maddie = doesn't like first grade says it's too much work and not enough play, doing really well, wants to do cheerleading again, great big sister, very protective of her brother, exceedingly dramatic, super smart, a little lazy (sadly, I think she gets this from me).
Cobby = likes preschool, going to Sesame Street Live with his class tomorrow, mouthy, testing me all the time, a sunny and happy child... He's such a lover, so cuddly and funny.
Work = busy, but great - very flexible with my schedule... Love my job!
Matt = amazing, wonderful... I thank my lucky stars every day that I finally stumbled into a relationship with someone who is such a great fit for me. It only took about a bajillion years. I can't tell you all how much chemistry the two of us have - I honestly cannot describe it in any earthly words. Can't wait for you all to meet him.
So that's it! Enjoy, and I will try to do better.
Me = happy, tired, adjusting to the single mom thing, crazy in love.
Maddie = doesn't like first grade says it's too much work and not enough play, doing really well, wants to do cheerleading again, great big sister, very protective of her brother, exceedingly dramatic, super smart, a little lazy (sadly, I think she gets this from me).
Cobby = likes preschool, going to Sesame Street Live with his class tomorrow, mouthy, testing me all the time, a sunny and happy child... He's such a lover, so cuddly and funny.
Work = busy, but great - very flexible with my schedule... Love my job!
Matt = amazing, wonderful... I thank my lucky stars every day that I finally stumbled into a relationship with someone who is such a great fit for me. It only took about a bajillion years. I can't tell you all how much chemistry the two of us have - I honestly cannot describe it in any earthly words. Can't wait for you all to meet him.
So that's it! Enjoy, and I will try to do better.
10 September 2008
Lauren's Old People Survey
Tired of all of those surveys made up by high school kids?
50 questions for the people who are a little older....
What bill do you hate paying the most?
Gosh, all of them... But mostly the Comcast bill. Highway robbery.
Where was the last place you had a romantic dinner?
What constitutes romantic? I think it was in Matt's kitchen.
Name of your first grade teacher?
I do not have the first clue.
What do you really want to be doing right now?
Sleeping my my lobster's pocket.
What did you want to be when you grew up?
A geologist.
How many colleges did you attend?
Just the one.
Why did you choose the shirt that you have on right now?
It's big and comfy - I'm relaxing.
What are your thoughts on gas prices?
We were spoiled for a long time, the rest of the world has been dealing with this for a long time. Blame my years in Europe for my unpopular opinion on this.
First thought when the alarm went off this morning?
Really? Already?
Last thought before going to sleep last night?
What an AMAZING night....
Do you miss being a child?
Not at all....
What errand/chore do you despise?
Cleaning. I really need to find a cleaner.
If you didn't have to work, would you volunteer?
Fo sho.
Get up early or sleep in?
Mainly up early - I like to have the whole day.
Have you found real love yet?
100% yes, and it's more amazing than I ever thought it could be.
Favorite lunch meat?
Chicken
What do you get every time you go into Wal-Mart?
I hate Wal-Mart and avoid it at all costs.
Beach or lake?
Beach, but then any of the great lakes will do.
Do you think marriage is an outdated ritual?
No, anyone who thinks that is stupid and totally missing the point.
Do you own property?
Doesn't everyone? Does this mean land? Then, no. But I have lots of personal property.
Favorite movie you wouldn't want anyone to find out about?
I don't know... Clueless?
What's your drink?
Alcohol - right now, beer.
Cowboys or Indians?
Um, neither. Bengals. Oh - you mean the kids game. Cowboys baby!
Cops or Robbers?
Cops
Who from high school would you like to run in to?
Recently been running into lots of old friends on Facebook.
Sopranos or Desperate Housewives?
Ugh, neither. But never seen the Sopranos, so can't judge.
Grey's or 'The Office?
Both please.
Worst relationship mistake that you wish you could take back?
Hurting his heart unintentionally - I didn't mean it. And it hurt mine worse to see his hurt. :(
Do you like the person that sits directly across from you at work?
No, I do not.
What famous person would you like to have dinner with?
Barack Obama
Indoors or Outdoors?
Usually in. But sometimes out too.
Have you ever crashed your vehicle?
Nope.
Have you ever had to use a fire extinguisher for its intended purposes?
No thank goodness!
Last book you read?
Gold Coast
Do you have a teddy bear?
I have a stuffed turtle named Flash - he lives in the trunk in my bedroom.
Strangest place you have ever brushed your teeth?
I brush them all over the place - in my car, kitchen at work, shower. I have about 10 toothbrushes stashed in random places.
Somewhere in California you've never been and would like to go?
Napa Valley or Tahoe
Do you go to church?
Yup, every week.
At this point in your life would you rather start a new career or new relationship?
Career if I had to choose one. But neither.
How old are you?
29 fo-evah! :) Ok, I lie. 34....
50 questions for the people who are a little older....
What bill do you hate paying the most?
Gosh, all of them... But mostly the Comcast bill. Highway robbery.
Where was the last place you had a romantic dinner?
What constitutes romantic? I think it was in Matt's kitchen.
Name of your first grade teacher?
I do not have the first clue.
What do you really want to be doing right now?
Sleeping my my lobster's pocket.
What did you want to be when you grew up?
A geologist.
How many colleges did you attend?
Just the one.
Why did you choose the shirt that you have on right now?
It's big and comfy - I'm relaxing.
What are your thoughts on gas prices?
We were spoiled for a long time, the rest of the world has been dealing with this for a long time. Blame my years in Europe for my unpopular opinion on this.
First thought when the alarm went off this morning?
Really? Already?
Last thought before going to sleep last night?
What an AMAZING night....
Do you miss being a child?
Not at all....
What errand/chore do you despise?
Cleaning. I really need to find a cleaner.
If you didn't have to work, would you volunteer?
Fo sho.
Get up early or sleep in?
Mainly up early - I like to have the whole day.
Have you found real love yet?
100% yes, and it's more amazing than I ever thought it could be.
Favorite lunch meat?
Chicken
What do you get every time you go into Wal-Mart?
I hate Wal-Mart and avoid it at all costs.
Beach or lake?
Beach, but then any of the great lakes will do.
Do you think marriage is an outdated ritual?
No, anyone who thinks that is stupid and totally missing the point.
Do you own property?
Doesn't everyone? Does this mean land? Then, no. But I have lots of personal property.
Favorite movie you wouldn't want anyone to find out about?
I don't know... Clueless?
What's your drink?
Alcohol - right now, beer.
Cowboys or Indians?
Um, neither. Bengals. Oh - you mean the kids game. Cowboys baby!
Cops or Robbers?
Cops
Who from high school would you like to run in to?
Recently been running into lots of old friends on Facebook.
Sopranos or Desperate Housewives?
Ugh, neither. But never seen the Sopranos, so can't judge.
Grey's or 'The Office?
Both please.
Worst relationship mistake that you wish you could take back?
Hurting his heart unintentionally - I didn't mean it. And it hurt mine worse to see his hurt. :(
Do you like the person that sits directly across from you at work?
No, I do not.
What famous person would you like to have dinner with?
Barack Obama
Indoors or Outdoors?
Usually in. But sometimes out too.
Have you ever crashed your vehicle?
Nope.
Have you ever had to use a fire extinguisher for its intended purposes?
No thank goodness!
Last book you read?
Gold Coast
Do you have a teddy bear?
I have a stuffed turtle named Flash - he lives in the trunk in my bedroom.
Strangest place you have ever brushed your teeth?
I brush them all over the place - in my car, kitchen at work, shower. I have about 10 toothbrushes stashed in random places.
Somewhere in California you've never been and would like to go?
Napa Valley or Tahoe
Do you go to church?
Yup, every week.
At this point in your life would you rather start a new career or new relationship?
Career if I had to choose one. But neither.
How old are you?
29 fo-evah! :) Ok, I lie. 34....
05 September 2008
Lauren's How Well Do You Know Your "Other" Survey...
How well DO you know your significant other?? be honest!!!........20 Q's
1. What do they watch on TV?
Mad Men, the Olympics, Criminal Minds, Get Smart, Dexter, Redwings hockey, Michigan football, How it's Made, Quincy, and the Food Network.
2. You're out to eat. what kind of dressing do they get on their salad.
Ranch or Italian
3. What's one food this person doesn't like?
One food? Only one? Mushrooms, olives, sushi (the raw kind)
4. You go out to the bar. He/she orders......
A beer. Amber microbrew.
5. Where did he/she go to high school?
Ubly, MI
6. What size shoe do they wear?
I think 10 or 11.
7. If this person were to collect anything, it would be......
Presents from his Alligator... And her artwork.
8. What is their favorite type of sandwich?
Oscar Mayer has a way with B O L O G N A
9. This person could eat __________ everyday?
Bologna, and he does eat it everyday!
10. Favorite cereal?
I don't think he likes cereal that much? But Rice Krispies.
11. This person wouldn't be caught dead wearing...
A speedo.
12. Favorite sports team?
Redwings, hands down. Also Michigan baby!
13. Who will he/she vote for?
Barack of course!
14. What is their sign?
Leo the LION
15. What is something you do that he/she wishes you didn't?
Eat only half a piece of cheese, and put the other half back in the fridge, then I forget about it until he unearths it later.
16. How many states has this person lived in?
Lots
17. What is he/she's heritage?
Polish
18. Do you bake them a cake for their birthday?
Nope, I make him a rhubarb crunch.
19. Did he/she play sports in high school?
Yup. Football.
20. This person could spend hours......
Playing with his daughter, hanging out with me, relaxing with his family, being the most amazing person I know!
1. What do they watch on TV?
Mad Men, the Olympics, Criminal Minds, Get Smart, Dexter, Redwings hockey, Michigan football, How it's Made, Quincy, and the Food Network.
2. You're out to eat. what kind of dressing do they get on their salad.
Ranch or Italian
3. What's one food this person doesn't like?
One food? Only one? Mushrooms, olives, sushi (the raw kind)
4. You go out to the bar. He/she orders......
A beer. Amber microbrew.
5. Where did he/she go to high school?
Ubly, MI
6. What size shoe do they wear?
I think 10 or 11.
7. If this person were to collect anything, it would be......
Presents from his Alligator... And her artwork.
8. What is their favorite type of sandwich?
Oscar Mayer has a way with B O L O G N A
9. This person could eat __________ everyday?
Bologna, and he does eat it everyday!
10. Favorite cereal?
I don't think he likes cereal that much? But Rice Krispies.
11. This person wouldn't be caught dead wearing...
A speedo.
12. Favorite sports team?
Redwings, hands down. Also Michigan baby!
13. Who will he/she vote for?
Barack of course!
14. What is their sign?
Leo the LION
15. What is something you do that he/she wishes you didn't?
Eat only half a piece of cheese, and put the other half back in the fridge, then I forget about it until he unearths it later.
16. How many states has this person lived in?
Lots
17. What is he/she's heritage?
Polish
18. Do you bake them a cake for their birthday?
Nope, I make him a rhubarb crunch.
19. Did he/she play sports in high school?
Yup. Football.
20. This person could spend hours......
Playing with his daughter, hanging out with me, relaxing with his family, being the most amazing person I know!
12 August 2008
Happiness is HARD work. It's NOT a free ride, baby!
Today my poor friend called me up in hysterics as she had just left her divorce mediation, and it did not go well. I felt so terrible for her. And even more so, I was taken straight back to less than a year ago when I was in a similar situation. I know exactly how she feels - scared, hopeless, powerless and confused. I remember well those feelings and there are no words to describe how horrible and bleak they are. It's a terrible thing for anyone to have to deal with. But I was also struck by just how far I have come in these months. Listening to her despair and recognizing that I can certainly empathize, but am truly so far out of that woods that it's just a distant memory is really great. Not that I am reveling in her misery - just that I was struck by the contrast between her situation and mine now. I am so grateful that my life is in such a different place now! And I am even more grateful for the grace God has given me that has enabled me to get through it in a relatively short period of time (generally as these things go, they can drag out for years, as in the case of my friend...). For this, and so many other things, I will be eternally grateful to God, as I know He took control of resolving my life over the past year and put in motion things that needed to happen even though I may not have recognized it at the time.
Anyway, all that got me thinking - I am truly so much happier now than I was "back then" (like it was so long ago), but even now, happiness and faith are hard work. They are choices you have to work at every single day. Even in my "happy place" life where I am now, things happen regularly that could drag me down - a misunderstanding or argument, poor communication, kiddos far away for lots of weeks, stress, uncertainty, etc. You have to CHOOSE to be happy. You have to CHOOSE to have faith that your life has a plan and you don't really control too much of it yourself. And those choices have to be made daily - even more than daily. It's WORK to be happy, but it is oh so worth it. My life is so great right now - I am so blessed - health, happiness, a seriously amazing wonderful new someone, kids coming home this week, no real worries...
But even so, some days I still have to remind myself that I CHOOSE to be happy, I CHOOSE to have faith, and I CHOOSE TO make my life as fulfilling and rewarding as possible. I love my life! I love the new person in it, and I thank God every day for bringing me to this place. A place that just a year ago was unfathomable to me; it is truly just where I belong. Everything happens for a reason, and my reason is abundantly clear right now. But it took a long time of waiting, and FAITH for it to be evident to me.
So try it, make your choice and choose to be happy. Not only will you feel better virtually all the time, bur remember the karma! I'm living proof - how you react and respond to the situations life puts in your path determine your future. And I'm convinced we'll one day be judged on how we handled ourselves in response to others and the challenges we faced throughout our lives. Easier said than done, I know, but really - why wouldn't you want to try?
Say a prayer for my friend - she badly needs it. She's been going though this for a lot longer than I have, and there is no end in sight for her yet. Pray for her strength and for her to find faith and hope - she's lost it along the way.
Anyway, all that got me thinking - I am truly so much happier now than I was "back then" (like it was so long ago), but even now, happiness and faith are hard work. They are choices you have to work at every single day. Even in my "happy place" life where I am now, things happen regularly that could drag me down - a misunderstanding or argument, poor communication, kiddos far away for lots of weeks, stress, uncertainty, etc. You have to CHOOSE to be happy. You have to CHOOSE to have faith that your life has a plan and you don't really control too much of it yourself. And those choices have to be made daily - even more than daily. It's WORK to be happy, but it is oh so worth it. My life is so great right now - I am so blessed - health, happiness, a seriously amazing wonderful new someone, kids coming home this week, no real worries...
But even so, some days I still have to remind myself that I CHOOSE to be happy, I CHOOSE to have faith, and I CHOOSE TO make my life as fulfilling and rewarding as possible. I love my life! I love the new person in it, and I thank God every day for bringing me to this place. A place that just a year ago was unfathomable to me; it is truly just where I belong. Everything happens for a reason, and my reason is abundantly clear right now. But it took a long time of waiting, and FAITH for it to be evident to me.
So try it, make your choice and choose to be happy. Not only will you feel better virtually all the time, bur remember the karma! I'm living proof - how you react and respond to the situations life puts in your path determine your future. And I'm convinced we'll one day be judged on how we handled ourselves in response to others and the challenges we faced throughout our lives. Easier said than done, I know, but really - why wouldn't you want to try?
Say a prayer for my friend - she badly needs it. She's been going though this for a lot longer than I have, and there is no end in sight for her yet. Pray for her strength and for her to find faith and hope - she's lost it along the way.
27 July 2008
The QUAD-fecta (is that a word?) of LOVE...
I read something interesting recently... Basically it said that there are four components to attraction or "chemistry", and without all four of those components intact, a relationship is not sustainable for a long period of time. The four are physical attraction, emotional attraction, mental attraction and spiritual attraction. The premise is that physical attraction is the initial thing that gets your juices flowing and attracts you to a person. But it also fades very quickly, sometimes within a few months or even weeks. The second part is emotional attraction, which means you become emotionally attached to other person - you care about them, their life and what happens to them... The third is mental attraction, which is to say that the two of you can have a good conversation and find each other mentally stimulating. The fourth is spiritual attraction - your "moral compass" so to speak, or your values and what is important to you - do yours match up well, or attract, to those of your partner? So the thought is that we by nature are all trying to locate a true soul mate, and in order to obtain that bliss, you need all four of these elements in your relationship. And also, that initial physical "zing" that eventually fades can be sustained if you have the other three. Don't you all think this is really interesting? I guess it's kind of common sense, but the way it was written really struck a chord with me. Only time can tell whether you have all four with someone which is why relationships break up at different stages - with some people you have more elements with that you do others, so those relationships can be sustained for a longer period of time.
Of course, not everyone is privy to such wisdom, and you have to deal with people and their weird phobias and feelings. Sometimes individuals can screw up something really good because of their own fears or apprehensions. But I guess that's where the theory that everything happens for a reason comes into play.
I guess I'm in the exploration stage as to whether I have all four right now - only time will tell. I think there is potential to say maybe I do, and for now that makes me happy!
So - do you have all four in your life and partner? If yes, we're all jealous. Give us your secrets.. If no, why not? You deserve it! We deserve it! Go get it and be happy!
PS to all my married friends, I truly hope you have all four with your spouse and that you enjoy my "single-girl" slant to my posts. Because this is my life, and it's what I like to write about so you'll all have to deal with it, even if it doesn't necessarily apply to you. (I mean that in the nicest possible way, of course.)
Of course, not everyone is privy to such wisdom, and you have to deal with people and their weird phobias and feelings. Sometimes individuals can screw up something really good because of their own fears or apprehensions. But I guess that's where the theory that everything happens for a reason comes into play.
I guess I'm in the exploration stage as to whether I have all four right now - only time will tell. I think there is potential to say maybe I do, and for now that makes me happy!
So - do you have all four in your life and partner? If yes, we're all jealous. Give us your secrets.. If no, why not? You deserve it! We deserve it! Go get it and be happy!
PS to all my married friends, I truly hope you have all four with your spouse and that you enjoy my "single-girl" slant to my posts. Because this is my life, and it's what I like to write about so you'll all have to deal with it, even if it doesn't necessarily apply to you. (I mean that in the nicest possible way, of course.)
01 July 2008
Even eternal optimists can have a bad day....
I guess it's been awhile since I updated this deal... Once again I've been slacking! In my defense I have been busy. But fear not, good friends. I'm back. AND I'm updating from vacation, so surely I get extra points for that. We (we = my entire family) are in North Carolina for a week at the beach. AND I have my kiddos for the week!
So what's up with my blog title, you ask? RIGHT! I'm on vacation, with my family, and have my kids - what in the world could be wrong with me? But still today I was grouchy, like Oscar. And not for really any good reason - just in a blah mood. Matt asked me today if I was grumpy because I miss Mike, being on vacation and all without him... Interesting question, and the answer is ABSOLUTELY NOT. In fact, it's totally the opposite. Being on vacation for the first time without him is making me realize just how much he dragged (drug?) me, and everyone else down. It's so nice to be without his constant negativity all the time! Aren't I so lucky? Seriously, not everyone in a marriage like mine has the chance to get out of it totally guilt-free and to build the life I should have had in the first place! AND I get my kids most of the time, AND I have amazing new people in my life, AND I am really, really, really, really happy. Even if I'm a grouch on the surface today, underneath, I'm a happy camper.
I will tell you all though that old habits die hard, it's not easy to shake them off. Thank goodness for Betsy! (I think you all know who she is, if not, feel free to ask.) Anyway, occasionally I find myself expecting the same kind of reactions from people that I would have gotten from Mike. Not unreasonable, considering how many years I was with him. But also not fair, to me or to anyone else. The good news is that they are occasional moments - mainly I'm approaching life and peole with the balance, independence and confidence of old me. And it's not even hard work.
I realized this weekend that I was single for a long time before Mike and I split up. Like my day-to-day life has not actually changed that much without him in it. Now, don't get me wrong. My happiness and brain health and well-being are COMPLETELY different. I'm talking about the get up, go to work, come home, watch telly etc. routine. And really what I mean, is that although I was married for all those years, we were not truly together. He didn't like me, and I didn't like him. So we co-existed. Let me tell you one of the stories that helped to me realize this... I got my performance review at work this week. So Matt asks me about it, and I tell him. Then he proceeds to ask me more about it, and give me all kinds of great advice. He's actually interested, which is so nice. I would never have had that conversation with Mike. He didn't care, and I didn't care to tell him. Sad, right? But actually it's HAPPY because that is NOT my future anymore! How lucky am I to have people in my life now who like me for me, and who I am truly interested in their lives as they are in mine? That's what it's all about people. Don't settle for anything less. We all deserve the whole package. Chemistry, click, whatever you want to call it. Find it, and find it with someone who is your "first person." You know - the first person you want when anything happens - good, bad or indiferent. If they are the first person on your mind for whatever you need or want to say then you are on the right track! Go get it. (Unless you are one of my married friends, in which case you hopefully already have it. This blog today is for the single people.)
I am one lucky duck. Yes, even the eternal optimist can have a bad day. I guess the difference is that for me it's only a day. I choose to get out of my pit. I am thankful for everything I am lucky enough to have, and I'm not talking material belongings here folks. I am blessed with amazing family, great friends, and new-found chemistry that I did not know existed in real life (outside of books and movies).
I like this blog. Writing things out always helps me see more clearly. Hope you enjoy the crazy ramblings, but even if not, it serves its purpose for me. Now. It's crazy late. I'm an idiot for staying up so late when the kiddos will be up at six am. So off to bed with me!
So what's up with my blog title, you ask? RIGHT! I'm on vacation, with my family, and have my kids - what in the world could be wrong with me? But still today I was grouchy, like Oscar. And not for really any good reason - just in a blah mood. Matt asked me today if I was grumpy because I miss Mike, being on vacation and all without him... Interesting question, and the answer is ABSOLUTELY NOT. In fact, it's totally the opposite. Being on vacation for the first time without him is making me realize just how much he dragged (drug?) me, and everyone else down. It's so nice to be without his constant negativity all the time! Aren't I so lucky? Seriously, not everyone in a marriage like mine has the chance to get out of it totally guilt-free and to build the life I should have had in the first place! AND I get my kids most of the time, AND I have amazing new people in my life, AND I am really, really, really, really happy. Even if I'm a grouch on the surface today, underneath, I'm a happy camper.
I will tell you all though that old habits die hard, it's not easy to shake them off. Thank goodness for Betsy! (I think you all know who she is, if not, feel free to ask.) Anyway, occasionally I find myself expecting the same kind of reactions from people that I would have gotten from Mike. Not unreasonable, considering how many years I was with him. But also not fair, to me or to anyone else. The good news is that they are occasional moments - mainly I'm approaching life and peole with the balance, independence and confidence of old me. And it's not even hard work.
I realized this weekend that I was single for a long time before Mike and I split up. Like my day-to-day life has not actually changed that much without him in it. Now, don't get me wrong. My happiness and brain health and well-being are COMPLETELY different. I'm talking about the get up, go to work, come home, watch telly etc. routine. And really what I mean, is that although I was married for all those years, we were not truly together. He didn't like me, and I didn't like him. So we co-existed. Let me tell you one of the stories that helped to me realize this... I got my performance review at work this week. So Matt asks me about it, and I tell him. Then he proceeds to ask me more about it, and give me all kinds of great advice. He's actually interested, which is so nice. I would never have had that conversation with Mike. He didn't care, and I didn't care to tell him. Sad, right? But actually it's HAPPY because that is NOT my future anymore! How lucky am I to have people in my life now who like me for me, and who I am truly interested in their lives as they are in mine? That's what it's all about people. Don't settle for anything less. We all deserve the whole package. Chemistry, click, whatever you want to call it. Find it, and find it with someone who is your "first person." You know - the first person you want when anything happens - good, bad or indiferent. If they are the first person on your mind for whatever you need or want to say then you are on the right track! Go get it. (Unless you are one of my married friends, in which case you hopefully already have it. This blog today is for the single people.)
I am one lucky duck. Yes, even the eternal optimist can have a bad day. I guess the difference is that for me it's only a day. I choose to get out of my pit. I am thankful for everything I am lucky enough to have, and I'm not talking material belongings here folks. I am blessed with amazing family, great friends, and new-found chemistry that I did not know existed in real life (outside of books and movies).
I like this blog. Writing things out always helps me see more clearly. Hope you enjoy the crazy ramblings, but even if not, it serves its purpose for me. Now. It's crazy late. I'm an idiot for staying up so late when the kiddos will be up at six am. So off to bed with me!
18 June 2008
Random Facts
For today I am giving you all some random facts, which many of you probably already know! Also, in the interest of full disclosure, I must reveal that I have plagarized some of these from a few friends who share the same thoughts. Just easier than re-writing myself. But still totally true.
I got kicked out of Girl Scouts when I was little because I would only go to the fun stuff.
My favorite place in the world is the beach.
I am 100% addicted to caffeine; I am very grumpy without it in the morning.
I am by nature a procrastinator
I refuse to mow the grass. Ever.
There is no part of me with any athletic ability at all. I suck at everything sports related.
But I would like to learn how to play tennis.
I love the Michigan Wolverines and Cincy Bengals! There is a huge Bengals helmet sticker on my office window.
I like to listen to people with British accents.
I rarely get sick, but I do have hay fever every spring – darn pollen!
I feel happier right now than I have in many many years.
I absolutely love my career.
My favorite card game is Pinochle.
I have a handbag addiction which I fund by selling old purses on eBay.
I don’t like conflict at all, and will do pretty much anything to avoid it.
I don’t like getting dirty – gardening, etc. I like to be outside if it’s an activity where I’m not rolling in the mud.
I once went spelunking at Mammoth Caves in KY and did the 8-hour Wild Cave tour. It was amazing. I got really dirty that day but it was ok.
I love to go on unplanned spur of the moment road trips.
I like rocks.
I am perpetually (sometimes annoyingly) optimistic.
I am always 10 minutes late.
I am a girly girl and like all things pink and sparkly.
I can rap Ice Ice Baby from memory without any music.
I am left-handed and can’t write with ballpoint pens; I use the roller ball kind.
I have the best friends a girl could ever hope for.
Old pictures of people and places fascinate me.
I love shoes.
I sometimes wish I were a runner.
I've honestly heard God speak to me several times in the past few months and I'm filled with joy about it.
I'm wondering when Mr. Bush is going to be depositing our stimulus package check.
I love my kids and it amazes me to see them grow...mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually.
I hate doing laundry. It's a never ending job.
I often wonder where people from my past are and what they are doing with their lives.
I love to shop online.
My brother Matt can make me laugh harder than anyone.
I have a major fear of snakes.
I believe deep down that I will win the lottery one day.
When I was three I almost died choking on pennies. My mom says I was completely blue and she got them out just in the nick of time.
I don't usually kill bugs that are in my house (except flies). I just escort them out.
I don’t like to drive; I much prefer to be the passenger.
I sometimes spend too much money on things I don’t really need but that I like a whole lot.
I don’t get people who are vegetarian but wear leather.
I get grouchy when I don’t get my way.
I have a big stuffed turtle that I love, and it belongs to me, not my kids. It lives in the trunk in my bedroom. Its name is Flash.
Two of my three best friends in the world I started out not liking. And they didn’t like me either.
I am a bargain shopper – I like nice things for not a lot of money.
I’ve never broken any bones.
I got kicked out of Girl Scouts when I was little because I would only go to the fun stuff.
My favorite place in the world is the beach.
I am 100% addicted to caffeine; I am very grumpy without it in the morning.
I am by nature a procrastinator
I refuse to mow the grass. Ever.
There is no part of me with any athletic ability at all. I suck at everything sports related.
But I would like to learn how to play tennis.
I love the Michigan Wolverines and Cincy Bengals! There is a huge Bengals helmet sticker on my office window.
I like to listen to people with British accents.
I rarely get sick, but I do have hay fever every spring – darn pollen!
I feel happier right now than I have in many many years.
I absolutely love my career.
My favorite card game is Pinochle.
I have a handbag addiction which I fund by selling old purses on eBay.
I don’t like conflict at all, and will do pretty much anything to avoid it.
I don’t like getting dirty – gardening, etc. I like to be outside if it’s an activity where I’m not rolling in the mud.
I once went spelunking at Mammoth Caves in KY and did the 8-hour Wild Cave tour. It was amazing. I got really dirty that day but it was ok.
I love to go on unplanned spur of the moment road trips.
I like rocks.
I am perpetually (sometimes annoyingly) optimistic.
I am always 10 minutes late.
I am a girly girl and like all things pink and sparkly.
I can rap Ice Ice Baby from memory without any music.
I am left-handed and can’t write with ballpoint pens; I use the roller ball kind.
I have the best friends a girl could ever hope for.
Old pictures of people and places fascinate me.
I love shoes.
I sometimes wish I were a runner.
I've honestly heard God speak to me several times in the past few months and I'm filled with joy about it.
I'm wondering when Mr. Bush is going to be depositing our stimulus package check.
I love my kids and it amazes me to see them grow...mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually.
I hate doing laundry. It's a never ending job.
I often wonder where people from my past are and what they are doing with their lives.
I love to shop online.
My brother Matt can make me laugh harder than anyone.
I have a major fear of snakes.
I believe deep down that I will win the lottery one day.
When I was three I almost died choking on pennies. My mom says I was completely blue and she got them out just in the nick of time.
I don't usually kill bugs that are in my house (except flies). I just escort them out.
I don’t like to drive; I much prefer to be the passenger.
I sometimes spend too much money on things I don’t really need but that I like a whole lot.
I don’t get people who are vegetarian but wear leather.
I get grouchy when I don’t get my way.
I have a big stuffed turtle that I love, and it belongs to me, not my kids. It lives in the trunk in my bedroom. Its name is Flash.
Two of my three best friends in the world I started out not liking. And they didn’t like me either.
I am a bargain shopper – I like nice things for not a lot of money.
I’ve never broken any bones.
16 June 2008
Don't Worry - Be HAPPY!
I think he was on to something with that song. It's so easy to get wrapped up in stress about what MIGHT happen, or to create scenarios in your head that will likely never happen. Why are we programmed to worry so much? Isn't life a lot simpler when we just accept our lives as they are today and embrace them with happiness and thankfulness for all the good things that we have? What you believe and the way you view your life does affect what happens to you on a daily and long-term basis. Negativity breeds negative things and all that. On the flip side, being positive and thankful for your blessings will keep more coming.
Keep em coming baby... I choose happiness!
Keep em coming baby... I choose happiness!
It's a Great Day... For Me to Whoop Somebody's A**
How many of you are familiar with the Bob and Tom radio show? The title of my post today is the song that's in my head right now. No idea why, as I haven't heard it in months since they don't have Bob and Tom here. (Bastages.) But it's there. You should all go to bobandtom.com and find the song and listen to it. I forget who sings it, but I think it's called "It's a Great Day." It's funny.
I'm in a weird mood today. Very very happy. And also pensive. Lots happening in my life to think about. I've never been one who freaks out about stuff, but that's kind of where I am. In a good way. I mean, the stuff I have to get weirded out about is good. But it's still weirding me out. Yeah, I know, I'm being totally vague. But writing (typing) my thoughts helps me sort through them, which is why I created this page in the first place! So as my friends you must all bear with me. It's your duty. I have so much going now, my whole life has been turned upside down in the last seven months, and I like the new life so much better than the old. It just feels too good, you know? Like I'm waiting for the ball to drop. I was so complacent in my "prior life" - I'm nervous to let that happen again. Things are going so well for me now in all areas - personal life, career, etc. I guess I did not expcet my life to become so great so fast. So I feel like I keep waiting for something bad to happen. Then I remind myself that I've probably dealt with enough bad stuff in the past year to tide me over for awhile so maybe it's all ok... Yes, I know I'm a freak. Give me a day or two to ponder and I'll be back to perpetually chipper old me. I just need to remember that I need to let go of my control-freak tendencies and realize that the plan for my life is not my plan. I do have faith that what is supposed to happen will. It's just hard to take that blind leap of faith, which is kind of what I feel like is happening. Don't get me wrong - I love it. The things that are happening in my life now are amazing and exciting. It's just kind of scary too.
Oh, I just realized some of you probably don't know (it's been awhile since my last post) - I am officially no longer married! A week ago at this moment I was leaving a courtroom having just had my marriage dissolved. The good news is that I couldn't be happier about it, although in theroy it is sad for my kiddos, in reality we are all much better off. I miss them like CRAZY though. They are in Cincy with their dad for the summer. It's werid without them around. We did the webcam yesterday, and it was great to see them, but it made me sad too. Maybe that's part of my weirdness today.
Other news - I had a FANTASTIC weekend, looking forward to an equally excellent week. Must go take one of my employees to lunch... More posting from me later!
I'm in a weird mood today. Very very happy. And also pensive. Lots happening in my life to think about. I've never been one who freaks out about stuff, but that's kind of where I am. In a good way. I mean, the stuff I have to get weirded out about is good. But it's still weirding me out. Yeah, I know, I'm being totally vague. But writing (typing) my thoughts helps me sort through them, which is why I created this page in the first place! So as my friends you must all bear with me. It's your duty. I have so much going now, my whole life has been turned upside down in the last seven months, and I like the new life so much better than the old. It just feels too good, you know? Like I'm waiting for the ball to drop. I was so complacent in my "prior life" - I'm nervous to let that happen again. Things are going so well for me now in all areas - personal life, career, etc. I guess I did not expcet my life to become so great so fast. So I feel like I keep waiting for something bad to happen. Then I remind myself that I've probably dealt with enough bad stuff in the past year to tide me over for awhile so maybe it's all ok... Yes, I know I'm a freak. Give me a day or two to ponder and I'll be back to perpetually chipper old me. I just need to remember that I need to let go of my control-freak tendencies and realize that the plan for my life is not my plan. I do have faith that what is supposed to happen will. It's just hard to take that blind leap of faith, which is kind of what I feel like is happening. Don't get me wrong - I love it. The things that are happening in my life now are amazing and exciting. It's just kind of scary too.
Oh, I just realized some of you probably don't know (it's been awhile since my last post) - I am officially no longer married! A week ago at this moment I was leaving a courtroom having just had my marriage dissolved. The good news is that I couldn't be happier about it, although in theroy it is sad for my kiddos, in reality we are all much better off. I miss them like CRAZY though. They are in Cincy with their dad for the summer. It's werid without them around. We did the webcam yesterday, and it was great to see them, but it made me sad too. Maybe that's part of my weirdness today.
Other news - I had a FANTASTIC weekend, looking forward to an equally excellent week. Must go take one of my employees to lunch... More posting from me later!
05 June 2008
Good karma abounds....
Tonight I am feeling lazy and tired. Up at 5 am this morning to drive to Cincy with the kiddos.
One adult + two kids + 8 hours of spongebob squarepants = Pure insanity!
They were actually pretty good on the drive, but it shot me for the day. Then I realized I left all of Mads PJ's in MD - so I had to go buy her some. Which really burns me up, since I just bought her all new summer ones. They are lovely and cute - in her drawer at HOME. I never claimed to be the brightest bear in the woods.
BUT I am here for lots of great reasons (here in Ohio, I mean). First and foremost, final court hearing on Monday morning. Months of drama will be reduced to a decree, and I can't wait. I'm not foolish enough to expect the drama to be completely gone, but I am happy that the threat of changing our agreement and / or refusal to sign or show up will be. In the meantime, I get to spend time with my best gal pal, my sibling and some old work buddies. Ohh, AND we're going to the bead store to make some jewelry on Saturday.
So, here are my deep thoughts for the day:
Good karma breeds more good karma. Much as a perpetually positive attitude brings more positive things to your life. (I think the book the Secret is a bunch of crap, but they did get that part right.) Seriously, I am living proof of this theory every day. I think we'll be judged one day on how we handled the challenges that life has thrown in our path. So - treat people well, help those who need it, and pay it forward (as the book says).
I don't understand people who choose to be angry and hold grudges. Why? Ask yourself this? What does it accomplish? You can bet that the person you're unhappy with is probably not losing any sleep over this issue that is so huge to you. So all of a sudden YOU'RE the only one who's unhappy. You can't control others actions / reactions, so worry about your own and let the rest go. Forgiveness is one of the greatest gifts we've been given. Too many people haven't figured out that it benefits you much more than the person you're forgiving.
Ok, off my soapbox for today, enjoy!
One adult + two kids + 8 hours of spongebob squarepants = Pure insanity!
They were actually pretty good on the drive, but it shot me for the day. Then I realized I left all of Mads PJ's in MD - so I had to go buy her some. Which really burns me up, since I just bought her all new summer ones. They are lovely and cute - in her drawer at HOME. I never claimed to be the brightest bear in the woods.
BUT I am here for lots of great reasons (here in Ohio, I mean). First and foremost, final court hearing on Monday morning. Months of drama will be reduced to a decree, and I can't wait. I'm not foolish enough to expect the drama to be completely gone, but I am happy that the threat of changing our agreement and / or refusal to sign or show up will be. In the meantime, I get to spend time with my best gal pal, my sibling and some old work buddies. Ohh, AND we're going to the bead store to make some jewelry on Saturday.
So, here are my deep thoughts for the day:
Good karma breeds more good karma. Much as a perpetually positive attitude brings more positive things to your life. (I think the book the Secret is a bunch of crap, but they did get that part right.) Seriously, I am living proof of this theory every day. I think we'll be judged one day on how we handled the challenges that life has thrown in our path. So - treat people well, help those who need it, and pay it forward (as the book says).
I don't understand people who choose to be angry and hold grudges. Why? Ask yourself this? What does it accomplish? You can bet that the person you're unhappy with is probably not losing any sleep over this issue that is so huge to you. So all of a sudden YOU'RE the only one who's unhappy. You can't control others actions / reactions, so worry about your own and let the rest go. Forgiveness is one of the greatest gifts we've been given. Too many people haven't figured out that it benefits you much more than the person you're forgiving.
Ok, off my soapbox for today, enjoy!
04 June 2008
"Nothing is too wonderful to be true..." Michael Faraday
Counting my blessings....
So I walk in the door today and the first thing Cobby says to me is "Mama! I'm a chicken butt!" Apparently at his swim lesson today he refused to jump in the pool to Kristen (the swim teacher) so now he's a chicken butt, at least according to himslef. What a kid. Maddie's last day of school was today; hard to believe she is finished with kindergarten already. I think it's all downhill from here - I already have visions of her being 18 years old. It's freaking me out.
Today was a great day! Lots of small nice things happened to me that just made my day brighter and brighter. I love days like that.
So tomorrow at 5:30 AM we drop Nana at the airport and the kiddos and me head to Ohio to drop them off with their dad for the summer. Starbucks is definitely on the agenda for the morning. It's so great that my mom has been able to be here and help us for so long (6 months!) without getting on each other's nerves, but I think just in the last week or so she is feeling really ready to go back to TX and my dad. I'm in for some lonely days I think - going from hubub of kiddos and my mom around all the time to just me for the summer will take some adjusting. The last time I lived alone was when I moved to England, in the summer of 1999. I'm looking foward to it and dreading it all at the same time.
Aren't I lucky to have such an amazing family? How many moms would do what mine did for me? Well, probably a lot. But how many people would actually enjoy living with their mom for 6 months? And I get to hang out with my brother and new sister this weekend. I love my family so much.
Most days I feel like the luckiest girl in the world. I have so much to be thankful for, and really nothing to be unhappy about. The best family in the world, the most amazing friends a girl could ask for, my kiddos with me the majority of the year, a career that I can truly say I love, and wonderful new people in my life.
I love my life.
So I walk in the door today and the first thing Cobby says to me is "Mama! I'm a chicken butt!" Apparently at his swim lesson today he refused to jump in the pool to Kristen (the swim teacher) so now he's a chicken butt, at least according to himslef. What a kid. Maddie's last day of school was today; hard to believe she is finished with kindergarten already. I think it's all downhill from here - I already have visions of her being 18 years old. It's freaking me out.
Today was a great day! Lots of small nice things happened to me that just made my day brighter and brighter. I love days like that.
So tomorrow at 5:30 AM we drop Nana at the airport and the kiddos and me head to Ohio to drop them off with their dad for the summer. Starbucks is definitely on the agenda for the morning. It's so great that my mom has been able to be here and help us for so long (6 months!) without getting on each other's nerves, but I think just in the last week or so she is feeling really ready to go back to TX and my dad. I'm in for some lonely days I think - going from hubub of kiddos and my mom around all the time to just me for the summer will take some adjusting. The last time I lived alone was when I moved to England, in the summer of 1999. I'm looking foward to it and dreading it all at the same time.
Aren't I lucky to have such an amazing family? How many moms would do what mine did for me? Well, probably a lot. But how many people would actually enjoy living with their mom for 6 months? And I get to hang out with my brother and new sister this weekend. I love my family so much.
Most days I feel like the luckiest girl in the world. I have so much to be thankful for, and really nothing to be unhappy about. The best family in the world, the most amazing friends a girl could ask for, my kiddos with me the majority of the year, a career that I can truly say I love, and wonderful new people in my life.
I love my life.
03 June 2008
Banishing Oscar...
Current mood: tired. happy. distracted. wishful. excited.
I am sitting here watching the man who I am sure is going to be our next President on the telly. He's finally got enough delegates to say he will be the nominee and still Billary will not concede. I dislike that woman beyond any form of dislike I can remember feeling for anyone or anything in the recent past.
Today I packed up the kiddos to go and stay with their dad for 9 weeks for the summer. It was hard. Part of me is looking foward to a break. But most of me knows I'll miss them like crazy. They'll have a good time though, and I get them for 43 weeks most years, so I can't complain!
I have been grouchy like Oscar today and it's not a feeling I enjoy. It's very contrary to how I typically choose to feel. And I was mean(ish) to some of my friends just because I am in a funk. SO! I have decided to get over myself. Remember - happiness is a choice. And I choose to feel it right now. So many great things are happening in my life TODAY! So for all of you that I grouched at today - I'm out of the pit. You can stop hiding from me now.
So - what kind of things are making me happy? Want a list of some of them? Here goes:
The anticipation of the summer!
My lobster... :)
My iPhone and the new ringtones I downloaded today.
The new (to me) Rascal Flatts song I found and like a whole lot.
I get to see all my best friends, my brother and new sister this weekend.
A new US Weekly came in the mail today.
My fancy silver bracelet with the cute charms on it. All with a meaning to me.
I get extra days with my kiddos before handing them over to the X.
T minus 5 days until my divorce is final. (I'll be a divorcee. How weird does that word sound?)
So am I a just material girl? You betcha! No, really, I just choose to find happiness in not only the big moments, but the simple everyday pleasures that life brings our way all the time. Join me on the ride, you'll like it. I promise.
I am sitting here watching the man who I am sure is going to be our next President on the telly. He's finally got enough delegates to say he will be the nominee and still Billary will not concede. I dislike that woman beyond any form of dislike I can remember feeling for anyone or anything in the recent past.
Today I packed up the kiddos to go and stay with their dad for 9 weeks for the summer. It was hard. Part of me is looking foward to a break. But most of me knows I'll miss them like crazy. They'll have a good time though, and I get them for 43 weeks most years, so I can't complain!
I have been grouchy like Oscar today and it's not a feeling I enjoy. It's very contrary to how I typically choose to feel. And I was mean(ish) to some of my friends just because I am in a funk. SO! I have decided to get over myself. Remember - happiness is a choice. And I choose to feel it right now. So many great things are happening in my life TODAY! So for all of you that I grouched at today - I'm out of the pit. You can stop hiding from me now.
So - what kind of things are making me happy? Want a list of some of them? Here goes:
The anticipation of the summer!
My lobster... :)
My iPhone and the new ringtones I downloaded today.
The new (to me) Rascal Flatts song I found and like a whole lot.
I get to see all my best friends, my brother and new sister this weekend.
A new US Weekly came in the mail today.
My fancy silver bracelet with the cute charms on it. All with a meaning to me.
I get extra days with my kiddos before handing them over to the X.
T minus 5 days until my divorce is final. (I'll be a divorcee. How weird does that word sound?)
So am I a just material girl? You betcha! No, really, I just choose to find happiness in not only the big moments, but the simple everyday pleasures that life brings our way all the time. Join me on the ride, you'll like it. I promise.
26 April 2008
Ponderings....
Today I am pondering the inner workings of weird people's minds.... What is it about people that they want everyone else to be as unhappy as they are? Why can people not be happy for you when you are doing well, rather than trying to drag you down into their gutter? I don't understand melancholy personalities. It's the complete antithesis of me and how I operate. So lesson learned - don't hang out with people who do that to you! Surround yourself with positive energy and your energy will follow suit! It's all about karma baby, and I can feel lots of good karma heading my way. Life is good.
25 April 2008
Watch and learn, Grasshoppers...
The secret to happiness... Yes, I have it and I'm willing to share! Free advice for all my friends!1. Be happy with today. Where you are right now. Stop thinking about yesterday or tomorrow and live in the moment. Count your blessings - yes, you do have many!2. Drink a LOT of RUM RUNNERS. Yum. My new favorite drink.Simple, why do people spend their whole lives trying to figure this out????
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